Xiu Erdai's daily essays

2988_ several contacts

When I was in the Gu pool, Elder Gao contacted me. This was a task that the mission office found for her. The request at that time was, "Take a look and give me an evaluation of whether the second son is dangerous." He glanced at me through the communicator and asked, "Are you safe?"

I replied at the time: "I feel safe."

Elder Gao: "I think so." Then the communication was cut off. Later, the mission office told me that Elder Gao's feedback to the mission office at that time was:

"Pei Lin is safe."

Later, when I was forming alchemy, the task office asked Elder Gao to see if it was safe for me to form alchemy, so Elder Gao connected to the communication platform centered on me, and the screen was not bubbling during the whole process, so maybe he just hung up.Elder Gao told the task office after I finished forming the alchemy: "It's safe."

——Isn't this nonsense, the alchemy is perfect, it doesn't make sense if it's not safe.The mission office is just looking for trouble.

When I traded hair with Quanzong, the mission office asked Elder Gao: "Do you want to participate in Pei Lin's hair transaction? The details are detailed in Pei Lin's online shop."

Task office: "What we mean is, if you want to participate, Elder Gao, but you don't want to handle the transaction yourself, we can transfer it on your behalf."

Elder Gao, who has read the transaction instructions, said, "Pei Lin requests a face-to-face transaction."

Mission Office: "That's mainly to prevent some people from fooling him with fake products, but Pei Lin will recognize the official credit of our Mission Office."

——I heard that the staff at the mission office argued in private afterwards:

"Second Young Master will really recognize the official credit of the Mission Office? He will definitely recognize the official business, but this is official business? This is the evaluation of the staff of our Mission Office, but it seems that it cannot be considered as official business within the scope of the Mission Office's external work?"

"If you can't do it, you can find the elder brother."

"Eldest senior brother's daily credibility doesn't seem to be very high with the second son."

"Special cases are dealt with specially. Second Young Master understands Elder Gao's special situation and will accommodate him. Second Young Master is not a rigid person."

"But……"

"Is it over? This matter is over. Elder Gao is willing to come forward to deal with the Second Young Master in person. There is no need for us to be an intermediary, and there is no need to consider asking the Second Young Master for accommodation. So let's stop here and don't worry about things that don't happen. This time we If you are lucky enough to pass the level, why don’t you simply rejoice and cherish it with the feeling that you have stepped on shit luck? Do you have to come up with additional questions to embarrass yourself?”

2989_'must' and 'dispensable'

Elder Gao is indeed willing to deal with me face to face, without the task office doing it for him.She sent a message by herself to make an appointment with me, and I told her the time I would go to her for a deal one day in advance, and when the time came, I would come to Tong Mingguo to change her hair.Except for the hello I said 'Elder Gao', there was no other sentence exchanged, and the whole process took less than three seconds.

Shouldn't Elder Gao feel troubled?

Eldest brother: "Elder Gao is willing to participate in matters related to you. One of the important reasons is that you are very sensible. You don't have any superfluous words or actions that are classified as necessary nonsense in interpersonal communication. Or sometimes, For example, say hello, but you don’t need Elder Gao to respond, that is, Elder Gao can ignore those nonsense, and you don’t have to worry about negative emotions from you.”

Eldest brother: "Interpersonal communication is very troublesome for Elder Gao, because people are very complicated. It is not difficult to understand what Elder Gao likes, that is, 'simple', so simple that there is no gimmick, no half redundancy. Feel Elder Gao's The sword intent can be understood, it is so neat, straightforward, and pure. The ultimate of basic sword moves. Therefore, if you want to get along with Elder Gao, it should be simple. Tell her directly what you need her to do. If it is necessary for her to do it, she would do well; conversely, if it was an optional thing, she would say no."

Eldest brother: "It's just that many people can't distinguish between 'must' and 'dispensable'. Connecting with each other, talking and laughing, eating and drinking, enjoying the scenery and people, maybe these things make many people happy, but they are in Elder Gao In the definition of the elder Gao, even the advanced sword moves and the supporting exercises are not necessary, because all the advanced sword moves are variations of the basic sword moves, maybe they are in some It will be sharper in occasions, but as long as you master the basic sword moves proficiently enough, those advanced variants can obviously be rolled out by yourself, so why bother to learn them specially, and memorize and understand the complicated exercises?"

Me: "I can understand this kind of thinking. In my previous life, I had this kind of thinking when I was studying mathematics, physics and chemistry. I learned a lot of derivation formulas at that time. If I remembered them, I would be faster when doing the questions. However, those derivation formulas They are all evolved from the basic formula, and the detailed derivation process is also given in the textbook, so in fact, as long as you memorize the basic formula and understand the derivation process, it will not take much time to push it again on the spot during the exam. I don’t remember things wrongly. In my previous life, I didn’t have such a good memory in this life, so I always have a good impression of things that can reduce the burden of memory.”

Me: "Actually, I pushed it a few times, so I naturally memorized the derivation formula. However, when I use it, in order to prevent memory errors, I will roughly push it again. A few seconds are enough. When pushing, I can organize it by the way. The way to solve the problem, the total time to do the problem will not be longer than the students who directly use the derivation formula, at least I have never felt that the test time is not enough because of this habit.”

2990_keep distance

Eldest brother: "Understood, I admit it from the bottom of my heart, I don't even need to think about how to cooperate, that's why Elder Gao is willing to participate in your affairs again and again. The mission department thought they had found a shortcut to get along with Elder Gao, but in fact, this And why isn't it Elder Gao's choice to compromise with the Mission Office?"

Me: "There's no need to compromise, right? Why don't you just resign?"

Senior Brother: "No, Elder Gao is actually willing to participate in the Yunxia Sect's affairs, because she definitely likes the Yunxia Sect, but she didn't find any items in the Yunxia Sect's routine affairs that bothered her. You know, every day Small things, although they are all combined to form the whole of Yunxiazong, but each small thing is listed separately, but it does not reflect the complete values ​​of Yunxiazong. There are deficiencies, and at the same time, there are many personal selfishness. The lack is better, the key is the individual Selfishness, Elder Gao is the most impatient with this."

Me: "'None of your business' and 'None of my business', Elder Gao is a person who thoroughly implements these two points."

Big Brother: "So you know how to get along with Elder Gao, right?"

Me: "Keep your distance, and don't go to the Three Treasures Hall for everything."

Elder Gao’s way of thinking, other people don’t need to keep in touch with her to maintain their relationship just because they may need her help in the future. As long as she thinks you are okay, then you can find her when you need her. If it does, she will help.

Of course they won't try their best to help them, but they certainly won't be perfunctory.Besides, people who ask for help hope that the other party will give everything for themselves?I definitely don't want the person I cherish to sacrifice for me like this. As for the person I don't care about...then the other party definitely doesn't care about me, and I don't expect too much from them.

If you just want to make friends with Elder Gao without utilitarianism... what a friend needs is that both parties feel comfortable after the relationship.Elder Gao doesn't like to interact with people too much, and outsiders insist on approaching her in the name of 'you are so lonely' or 'I like you so much, in fact, I have many advantages, we will know if we get in touch with you more', This is not making friends, this is making enemies.Elder Gao is a swordsman, and she is really impatient and unable to avoid it, so it is almost her inevitable choice to do it.

Being able to practice in Yunxia Sect from Qi training stage to Spirit transformation stage, Elder Gao must regard the entire Yunxia Sect and all the disciples of Yunxia Sect as his own.If any disciple really needs to ask Elder Gao for help, Elder Gao will definitely not shirk it, but it is the personal preference of the disciples to chatter and chatter when there is nothing to do, and Elder Gao who does not like it will not accompany him based on personal emotions.

2991_ help

After Elder Gao Yi came to me and Elder Yi Ruo who were wasting time, she asked me: "What do you want me to do?"

At that time, I didn't know that the mission office had negotiated with Elder Yi Ruo, so I guessed: "It's related to the mission office? The distribution map of the Smash Bros.? Please help me restore the relevant information and map delivery channels of the Smash Bros.."

Then Elder Gao Yi helped me recover, ignoring Elder Yi Ruo's intentions the whole time.

Elder Yi Ruo dissatisfiedly stopped Elder Gao who was about to leave after completing the task: "I'm punishing the younger generation."

Elder Gao Yi: "That's your business."

Translation: It has nothing to do with the elders.

Elder Yi Ruo: "If you restore the communication part for him, the punishment effect will be discounted."

Elder Gao Yi: "His own request."

Translation: It still has nothing to do with the elders.

Elder Yi Ruo: "Pei Lin, what about your upright attitude when you are punished?"

At the same time as I received the information about the chaos, I also received the private goods from the mission office.The mission office complained to me about how they organized language to seek help from Elder Gao Yi, who was even more difficult to communicate with after failing to negotiate with Elder Yi Ruo.

The task office concluded: "The eloquence of the year has been spent on this matter."

I responded to Elder Yi Ruo: "Punish me if you punish me, but you can't disturb other people's work. The work of Smash Bros. is an assembly line. If one link is broken, the whole thing will be delayed. You can punish me in another way."

Elder Yi Ruo: "The mission office is exaggerating. You lost communication for so long when you entered Tarong, did their work in the chaos get messed up?"

Me: "The previous situation can't be directly copied to the present, unless you have evidence to prove that the task office is really messed up this time. But I don't think they have. If it wasn't for something wrong, they wouldn't bother Elder Gao."

At that time, it was less than a year after the hair transaction. In such a short period of time, there was no time limit for the task office to do the exam question of Elder Gao.Moreover, if they disturbed Elder Gao continuously in a short period of time, the mission office would be afraid that Elder Gao would resign.

——The elder resigned. When Elder Gao refused to explain in detail, the managers of the task office had to write a self-reflection report: what did they do to reduce the elder's tolerance for this department to zero.

I feel that the task office invited Elder Gao this time to be a bit of a dog who jumped the wall and died as a living horse doctor. I searched the materials of the Great Smash Bros. to find out what made them panic.

Elder Gao, who didn't participate in my conversation with Elder Yi, but didn't bypass Elder Yi, helped me completely destroy the talisman that I couldn't decipher at that time.

I was happy: "Thank you, Elder Gao." Ah, I beat Elder Yi once again.