Xiu Erdai's daily essays

3344_limitation

Family-style cultivation inheritance has great limitations, because their cultivation methods are related to blood, so they cannot accept outsiders, and with the fertility of monks, they can only find them among relatives—not too distant relatives, three generations away. The blood relationship is so weak that the family's skills can't be used well-the decline is inevitable.

So the existing comprehension families are either about to disperse, and the monks in the family are less than double digits in terms of Qi training period;

The Xu family is already a very promising family of cultivation, and it is only equivalent to a third-rate sect.In the selection of time, the family is replaced by the sect, the blood relationship is overshadowed by the master-student relationship, or occasionally a small cultivator family with a strong blood relationship will also be absorbed as part of the sect, such as the elder Pei's family.

If my brother has a child, three generations, our family is completely enough to build a family.There are at least thousands of years before the father dies, and it is unbelievable that there will be no more children at this time.

Xiao Sui: "Who gave birth?"

Dude, he seems to be working hard on this.

Fuqiu: "But it didn't work out."

Forget it, it can be built and it will not be built.As an elder, Dad's way has merged with Yunxia Sect, now he will leave Yunxia Sect and establish his own family?Do you dislike yourself for practicing too smoothly?

The sect's exercises can accommodate blood relationship, but the blood-related exercises reject outsiders, including daughter-in-law and husband, and Taoist couples. This kind of exclusiveness is doomed to only a small number of people. Even if it was once powerful, it can only gradually decline. .

Yes, the Cultivation Family once had a very glorious history.Aristocratic families, sects, and casual cultivators once stood up in three parties.

If it is not restricted by the fertility rate, the aristocratic family has many natural advantages.Relatives, breaking bones and connecting tendons, this kind of centripetal force is innate.Although some relatives are indeed bad-hearted, the practice of cultivation eliminates the varieties with too bad xinxing, so the rest can be regarded as the same kind.Whether it is the same kind who do good together or the same kind who do evil together, anyway, the philosophy of life is similar, and there is no fundamental contradiction.

However, it is also possible that even if there is no fertility problem, the aristocratic family model will still go to a dead end, because it is too convergent and exclusive, it is easy to become rigid, and it is easy to confront outsiders.The conflict between the two juniors may lead to the elders who protect the weak, and then the two elders who think similarly to their respective juniors conflict with each other, and then develop into family fights, and finally fight the real fire and die together.

Hey, thinking about it this way, Kunlun's complex faction is also beneficial. No matter which faction confronts outsiders, there will be other factions in Kunlun to pour cold water on it.With the size of Kunlun, stability is too important, and it is a merit if there is no fault in the whole.Flexibility can be tested in various factions, but the whole must be stable, no matter how big the storm is, it will not move.

3345_Have you been through?

Xu Qing gave up his bluntness and answered me seriously: "The one with a plan is the Nascent Soul Stage."

Me: "Do you think the chances are high? Your Xu family seems to have only one Nascent Soul Stage?"

Xu Qing: "Anyway, there have been. Don't you want to cultivate to the Mahayana stage? The peak of Jindan is not far from the Nascent Soul stage."

Me: "Can't fix it?"

Xu Qing: "The moment I die, I will be sure whether I can repair it or not."

I put a glass of water in front of Xu Qing.

Xu Qing looked at the cup that was exactly the same as the drug solution of Du Ya and the cup: "..."

Me: "Do you dare to drink?"

Xu Qing: "I guess it's the antidote."

Me: "Maybe."

Xu Qing: "Or the medicine that makes my hands numb."

I might."

Xu Qing grabbed the cup, took a sip, and typed: "I think you look really pretty when you smile."

Me: "Praise me now that I can't change the properties of the medicine."

"Sincerely." Xu Qing finished typing, drank the liquid medicine, coughed twice, and said with a dry voice, "It's the antidote."

I nodded.

Xu Qing: "Did you give me the antidote in advance because I praised you?"

Me: "Probably."

Xu Qing: "Will you poison me again?"

Me: "Maybe."

Xu Qing: "It's strange, how can there be so little information about you?"

Me: "The intelligence provider you chose concealed you?"

Xu Qing: "Is my bid too low, or is there part of your information that is not suitable for sale?"

Me: "Maybe you can try to ask Bao Bao, they have low integrity."

Xu Qing: "So there are parts that are not suitable for selling to me. Is it related to Huashenqi's willingness to give you such a serious guarantee?"

Me: "You have to ask your informant for this kind of thinking circuit, I guess there are."

Xu Qing: "Have you passed the tribulation of inner demons? It feels like you don't want to kill me anymore."

Me: "I didn't really think about it at first. As for whether it counts as the catastrophe of the heart demon... I don't know, maybe it's just a momentary thinking that went astray?"

Xu Qing: "Have I passed the tribulation of inner demons?"

Me: "I have no way of knowing. But you don't have to care too much about whether you have passed it or not. You should do what you should do, and control yourself not to do what you shouldn't do. You can do what you can and don't do, and think clearly about the consequences. , Do what you want, let go if you don’t want to do it. Always entangled in whether you are in the evil of the heart, this kind of thinking itself has the meaning of the heart.”

3346_ Self-confidence will not go to that step

Me: "What's so scary about demons? It's just a part of one's own thoughts. Who doesn't want to be hurt intermittently? It's enough to understand the ins and outs of the current mood and not do things that will make you regret it. "

Xu Qing: "Can't you control it?"

Me: "Simulate in your head what will happen after you can't control doing something, and you will be sober. For example, now I can think that if I kill you, the person I value very much will have to keep his promise and kneel down. In front of your corpse, I will calm down and don't want to do any stupid things."

Xu Qing: "What if you think too much about such a scene, and instead bring a self-destructive pleasure?"

This kid really has some resemblance to me.

Me: "Then self-harm, real self-harm, hurt yourself. Don't cause irreversible damage to yourself, and do whatever else."

Xu Qing: "That's too depressing, will it make my psychological problems worse?"

Me: "Yes. When it is so serious that it is out of control and everything you want to do will hurt someone who must not be hurt, just kill yourself. There is no point in continuing to live."

Xu Qing: "...I don't think your counseling is right."

Me: "Because I am confident that I will not go that far, my psychological problems are not serious enough, so I can torment myself as I like, I believe that my endurance is enough for me to torture myself without death. As for your It has nothing to do with me, doesn't it? When I am here, I will definitely not let you succeed in suicide. After this task is over, your life and death have nothing to do with me. "

Xu Qing: "..."

Me: "However, it has something to do with the eavesdropper."

The Xu family who eavesdropped on my conversation with Xu Qing: "..."

Xu Qing frowned: "Who is eavesdropping? I didn't find out, so it's someone with a higher level of cultivation than me? As an elder, can you be more upright in front of the younger generation?" At the end, Xu Qing's voice was basically yelling. It feels very authoritative.

The Xu parents who were not upright smiled and pushed open the door: "Aren't I afraid that one more person will poke here and hinder your chat? Actually, it's not very sneaky. Senior Jiang always knew I was there."

Xu Xing, the early stage of Jindan, Xu Qing's uncle.

Xu Qing: "Aren't you very busy now? Why do you have to spare a person to watch me?"

Me: "That's right. If you have extra manpower, why do you bother to go to the Yunxia Sect to entrust? Wouldn't it be more peaceful for you to protect Xu Qing yourself?"

3347_Communication skills?

Xu Qing: "The reason for looking for Yunxia Sect is because I thought that Yunxia Sect would send Jindan Peak, who can confront Han Yituo head-on, and also add the shocking power of Yunxia Sect. Who knew that Yunxia Sect would actually send someone who is not as good as our Xu family's highest cultivation level?" In the mid-term, this mid-term is not only not like a bodyguard, but also threatens to kill the employer."

Me: "You want to be poisoned dumb again, right?"

Xu Qing: "Anyway, you are confident that you have excellent psychological quality, and you won't kill me. You can poison me as you like."

"Don't, don't, don't," Xu Xing quickly smoothed things over, "Didn't you have a good chat just now? Xiaoqing, don't get angry, it's my fault, I don't trust your communication skills. I won't eavesdrop, go now, you slow down Talk slowly, talk well."

Speaking of which, Xu Xing really backed out, and while telling him to 'have a good chat' again, he walked away.

I asked Xu Qing: "Trust your communication skills?"

Xu Qing: "What right do you have to say about me?"

Me: "At least I'm not stupid enough to offend an enemy that needs the whole family's vigilance. Especially the offense that could have been avoided."

Xu Qing: "...I really didn't see that Lingzhi had an owner."

Me: "I really can't blame you for this. It's senior Han Yituo's handling methods that are amateurs. At best, you know little about Lingzhi, and you didn't realize that Lingzhi should not grow in the environment where you found it."

Xu Qing: "So my fault was that when Han Yituo asked me for Lingzhi, he had a bad attitude? Obviously he was the one who was worse first. He called me a thief as soon as he appeared in front of me. Every word was an order. How tall is it?"

Me: "It's a little lower than cultivation. You can't beat him, your whole family can't beat him, he is the boss."

Xu Qing: "Cultivation is not so pure a law of the jungle."

Me: "You can't even protect yourself, why are you talking about reason? People who bully you won't listen."

Xu Qing: "You listened."

Me: "It's your luck. But you can't expect to be so lucky every time. Like, you can order Jindanqi at home, but outside, no Jindanqi will listen to you, the best case It’s just that I don’t care about you. Senior Han Yituo’s reaction can’t be regarded as the worst situation, because we can still talk about it. Even if he is very airy, there is always room for talking. What if he is a person who refuses to speak at all? ? What if he wants to kill you, and kill the person who stops him from killing you?"