Xiu Erdai's daily essays

2912_Change

I took out another decorative ice lotus, squeezed it lightly, and the decorative ice lotus exploded with a 'boom', scattered into shards of ice, and the shards of ice quickly gathered together to form a complete ice lotus again.

Zeng Qi: "I want it!"

Me: "But I don't want to give you away for nothing, what will you give me in exchange?"

Zeng Qi decisively handed the game console to me.

Me: "...don't you like game consoles very much?" When one breaks down, you can quickly get a new one, and you can't separate them for a moment.

Zeng Qi: "I'm going to start focusing on playing live games, I won't need it in the future."

Me: "I've been playing live-action games for years and will continue to play without using it."

Zeng Qi thought for a while and said, "You said earlier that you could trade your hair for something."

Me: "You don't want to change, so you didn't come to line up just now."

Zeng Qi: "I don't want to, I'm just looking to see if you are the person in the photo. I'll change if you are, and I won't change if you're not."

Me: "You don't think so."

Zeng Qi: "But Pei Da said, I will listen to everything you say to the person in the photo, so I will listen to you, and I will change it if you ask me to."

Me: "I didn't ask you to change it, what I said is that you can change it if you want."

Zeng Qi: "I want to change. I want that firecracker."

Your ability to pick names casually fits perfectly with Yunxiazong.

Pei Douxing: "Will my two flowers explode too?"

Me: "No, do you want something that can explode?"

Pei Douxing: "No."

Me: "Then keep those two flowers, don't explode."

Zeng Qi: "I'm going to explode."

Me: "Change it."

Hair in one hand and ice crackers in the other.

After getting it, Zeng Qi pinched it for a while, wondering: "Why didn't it explode?"

Me: "Spiritual power. A cultivator at the peak of Qi training, isn't he used to doing everything with spiritual power?"

Zeng Qi charged with spiritual power, and the ice lotus flower was indeed shattered, but it was not smashed in an explosion, but was destroyed by spiritual power.

Zeng Qi also noticed something was wrong: "Ah, I broke it again."

Oh, maybe this is why Zeng Qi didn't develop the habit of using spiritual power: living in the mortal world, many things around him lack spiritual power defenses and are easily damaged by spiritual power.At home, his family can give him a special order, but in schools, on the street, public facilities, and other people's things, it is impossible for everything to be strong enough.

This kind of destructive power and other people's eyes, words, dodging, etc. caused by the destruction, on the one hand, will make children fear their own power, and on the other hand, it will prevent them from abusing their own power.The former emotion needs to be corrected later, but the latter needs to be preserved.

2913_ raising children is really tiring

During this period, special attention should be paid to guiding children's attitudes towards spiritual power: it is not wrong to be in awe of power, but it is not to be too afraid to use it; it is right not to abuse it, but it is extreme to refuse to use it.The balance between these can only be adjusted slowly in practice.

Raising children is tiring.

In contrast, raising a child born in the cultivation world is not easy, it is another kind of tiring.

Children who have lived in the cultivation world since they were young are used to spiritual power and use it habitually all the time. Once they encounter situations where their spiritual power is limited, they will be at a loss. Whether it is the cultivation world or the mortal world, spiritual power is limited Limits are actually very common.

In the world of cultivation, there are various methods of confinement and blockade of spiritual energy, while in the world of mortals, the environment is weak in spiritual energy. As a result, it is difficult for monks to use the spiritual energy in the environment, and even using the spiritual energy in their own bodies will have deviations.

It is still troublesome to raise a pseudo-child like me with a lifetime of memories, because I will confuse the two worlds and frequently put on one another.Worse than a normal kid, my adult mind was set in a previous life, so when thoughts came up that didn't fit the world, it was a struggle to reverse them.

Summary: It is tiring to raise any kind of child, and Dad really worked hard.The most difficult thing is that if the old man says he has worked hard, the whole cultivation world will think that he is showing off, and absolutely no one will sympathize with him or empathize with him.

When Zeng Qi was feeling a little lost because of the ice lotus showing a different crushing method than I demonstrated before, the scattered ice shards gathered again and became one again. It was still an ice lotus, but it was different from what it was before. slightly different.

Me: "Its self-healing ability is very strong. With your current cultivation base, even if you destroy it intentionally, it will not really damage it. It is very fragile and easy to restore, but every time you use excessive spiritual power to impact it , your spiritual power will remain on the fragments, and when these fragments are reassembled, under the interference of your spiritual power, the aggregated shape will change somewhat."

Me: "It is still a lotus flower overall, but it will be more and more different from the lotus flower I gave you. If one day it changes completely and becomes no longer a lotus flower, your spiritual power will replace mine. Spiritual power, become the core of this little decoration, and it will belong to you completely."

Zeng Qi: "...I don't quite understand."

The kid is kind of stupid.

Zeng Qi: "But I can play with it anyway, right?"

Stupid is stupid, but the ability to grasp the key points is not bad.

Me: "Yes. Play casually, don't be afraid of it breaking, you have no ability to destroy it before your cultivation reaches the foundation building stage. Do you still remember what Pei Dada told you, you need to suppress your cultivation?"

Zeng Qi: "It's under pressure."

Me: "That's good. Go ahead."

2914_ The foundation is the foundation

Someone protested: "Second son, there are no such ice firecrackers on your willow tree."

Me: "New products. I don't sell every new product I develop. Just buy what you encounter. Don't use the later products to demand the previous ones."

Shi Nihan walked up to me, holding a decorative ice lotus in his hand, in which there are small bursting ice particles.He asked: "Ice firecrackers are made of these two things, right?"

Me: "Yeah, I was inspired by your attempt to merge them."

Shi Nihan: "But I didn't succeed."

Me: "Cultivation is a problem."

Shi Nihan: "Brother Pei, I won't play tricks with you anymore, can you help me?"

Me: "This is extra work, what will you pay me as compensation?"

Shi Nihan: "I sell myself to you."

Me: "There are too many people who want to sell themselves to me, go in line."

Many people booed: "That's right, the newcomers go in line."

Shi Nihan: "I will explain to Junior Sister Pei Douxing about raising spirit beasts."

Me: "That's because she wants to pay you, not me. And if she agrees to let you teach, you want to get paid? Refuse to force buying and selling."

Pei Douxing: "I listen to Senior Brother Lin, and take what the teachers and textbooks say, and don't talk about the untested experience of my peers."

Me: "Yes, you have to be so cautious. Although children are often reluctant to hear others say that they are young, the fact is that you are still young, your thinking is not fixed, and you are easily disturbed by the external environment. If you accept a bad way of thinking now , It will be very troublesome to correct in the future, and there will be many detours in the process, so we must screen the information receiving channels from the beginning."

Me: "The seniors who can teach in the Yunxiazong classroom and the courses they teach have been judged by many parties. Although they cannot be guaranteed to be completely correct, at least there will be no mistakes in the general direction, and at most there will be small deviations in some details. This kind of error is easy to correct later, even if you believe it because of lack of judgment, there will be no major problems.”

Some people refuted me: "Faithful belief will make thinking rigid."

Me: "Some people's thinking is very active, but they are floating and have no foundation. What's the point of being active? Is it cheaper to say a word or two? I said that a sword cultivator should practice basic sword moves [-] times a day. You Do we mean the same thing when we say the same amount of time is more profitable running tasks?"

"The basics are important, but the basics aren't everything."

Me: "The foundation is not everything, the foundation is the foundation, it is the root, it is the land, and it is the foundation on which other things can be built. Shut up, I don't want to argue with you, it doesn't matter to me what you think, I'm talking to people who are willing to listen to what I ask The child speaks."

2915_ flattery

Pei Douxing: "Yes, Brother Lin is talking to me."

Shi Nihan was a little powerless: "Shut up those who have nothing to do, I'm still waiting for Brother Pei to save me. Although the ice particles exploded, it didn't hurt much, but it hurts, it's too wasteful, the fusion version in Zeng Qi's hand That's great, I want it too."

Zeng Qi is very generous: "I can borrow you to play."

Shi Nihan: "Thank you, but I suggest that you don't lend that one to others to play with. Didn't Senior Brother Pei just say that every time your spiritual power breaks it, your spiritual power will form a certain transformation on it?" , as time goes by, it will become more and more suitable for you. If you get someone else's spiritual power in the middle, although you can erase that spiritual power after a long time, but after all, there is one more process, and the attributes of other people's spiritual power are not like Senior Brother Pei's. If you are so inclusive, you may not be able to completely erase it by then, which is not good."

Zeng Qi asked me: "Shouldn't I lend it to others to play?"

Me: "It depends on what you expect. If you want a toy that belongs to you, don't; if you want it to be a communal toy, just borrow it."

Shi Nihan: "You may not be able to get it back if you borrow it. Some people's spiritual power is very exclusive. Once it is contaminated, this thing will belong to him, and it has nothing to do with you."

Zeng Qi didn't seem to understand.

Pei Douxing: "That is, after you give it to others to play, you may not be able to play it yourself."

Zeng Qi thought for a while: "Then I won't lend it to others."

I wanted to argue with me, but the outer disciple who was diverted from the topic by Shi Nihan and the others couldn't find a chance to speak, and finally snorted: "Flatter."

Me: "The outer sect's qi training period flatters the inner sect's Jindan period, is there any problem?"

"Hey, second son, it's not easy to say such things publicly, right?"

Me: "So what?"

"Say it... let's say it."

"I'm happy to flatter you, too."

"I'm not happy."

"Those who are not willing have already changed places to stay. The Yunxia Sect is so big, so you can find a place where you can live, and no one will force you to stay here."

"I stay here to see the beauties, not to flatter."

"Then shut up and watch. If you don't want to listen to flattery, put yourself in soundproofing. It's such a simple thing."

Some people are still not convinced: "Isn't it because I have a good father?"

Me: "Aren't you relying on us being in the same sect, so I won't kill you for a few sour words? The foundation establishment stage is so sneering at Jin Danqi from other sects, you try?"