Chapter 156 156, wash 3, wash 9, wash 2
Xu Damao now really believes that there is such a thing as happiness. Before the child was born, his back hurt so much it felt like it was about to break.
But after the baby was born, he was too busy to see a doctor. When he thought about it, Xu Damao found that the pain didn't exist anymore.
This feeling confused Xu Damao.
To be on the safe side, Xu Damao still took the time to go see him. The doctor just pressed a few places on him and asked him if it hurt. After receiving Xu Damao's negative answer, the doctor directly concluded that it was fine.
Xu Damao naturally asked curiously what was going on in his situation.
The old doctor stroked his smooth chin and said, maybe he was out of breath.
This magical thing made Xu Damao inexplicably feel more reverence for the unknown.
He has even encountered such a thing as time travel, nothing is impossible.
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For the deaf old lady, she hopes that all the residents in the yard will treat her as their ancestor.
It's best to keep all the delicious food close to her, after all, the house everyone lives in originally belongs to her.
Therefore, the deaf old lady looked down upon anyone in the yard.
She felt that everyone should be kind to her. This happened more than ten years ago. She would have to sit on a small stool at the gate, and all the tenants in the courtyard would have to bow and kowtow to her.
It was indeed like that at the beginning, but later as our army entered the city, those mud-legged people had less and less respect for her, and finally it disappeared.
This is the reason why she likes Yi Zhonghai's family. If she really wants to find someone to take care of her in old age, with her family fortune, it's not like she can't find someone to take care of her.
But the only one who could win the respect of the whole hospital was Yi Zhonghai.
This respect was not broken until Xu Damao fell out.
Since then, the deaf old lady has plotted against Xu Damao and Lou Xiao'e, but the couple has not let anyone in, leaving no gaps for her.
I thought that Lou Xiao'e's giving birth to a baby this time would be an opportunity, but I didn't expect that the joy would be in vain.
The deaf old lady knew that the Yi family and his wife could not survive alone.
Now she can still move, and she hasn't handed over the things in her hands. In addition, the Yi family and his wife have not yet seen the details of the He family and other twists and turns.
That's why the Yi family and his wife could be so filial to her, but one day if she couldn't move and was lying on the bed, it would be the time for the Yi family and her husband to take care of her.
When the time comes, her money, the secrets she knows, and her tangled relationships will all be easily tricked out by the Yi couple.
In the end, she is no longer of use, that is, when she is waiting to die.
This was the reason why she wanted to repair it with so many families in the courtyard.
Most of the people in the yard couldn't count on it. Maybe the Yi family and his wife would give her a small profit and abandon her.
In the yard, there were only a few families who could compete with Yi Zhonghai.
The Yan family is more greedy than the Yi family and cannot be trusted.
Liu Haizhong rejected her from the beginning and was untrustworthy.
The only two families left are the Xu family and the He family.
In fact, the deaf old lady was not looking for the Yi family couple at first.
She initially looked for the Liu family, but she didn't expect Liu Haizhong to be disrespectful and said she didn't want to have more than one mother, so she ruthlessly rejected her. This is the origin of the feud between the deaf old lady and the Liu family for nearly ten years.
Later, she got in touch with the Yi family, and the first person she dealt with was also the Liu family. Otherwise, how could the saying "Unkind parents, unfilial children" have been circulated for so long?
The He family, the He family, and the deaf old lady today also saw what happened to Silly Zhu’s wife going to the Xu family.
She also had some thoughts in her heart, but doing these things would definitely offend the Yi family.
There are two choices, one is the Yi family who has taken care of her, and the other is the He family who hates her.
Even if she told the He family about the matter, she could only have normal interactions with the He family. There is still a lack of opportunity for the He family to take care of her like future generations.
The deaf old lady is also quite numb now. She felt that the road in front of her was getting narrower and narrower. If we continue like this, it may be a dead end.
But I want to change, but I can't find the direction at all.
The Liu family ignored her, the Xu family ignored her, and the He family ignored her.
Xu Damao didn't know what the deaf old lady was thinking. He simply didn't want to associate with people who were too thoughtful.
Because he knows that he is an ordinary person and is used to a life of exchanging hearts with others.
In other words, whoever is good to him will also be good to him.
He doesn't even bother to talk to people he doesn't like.
This is a disease of laziness developed in later generations, for which there is no cure.
Xu Damao doesn't want to let himself become a person that everyone likes. From his point of view, living like that would be very tiring.
But these days, it's impossible to turn yourself into a person that everyone hates. In that case, when the storm comes, everyone will think of ways to stab him in the head and back.
So in the factory, even if Xu Damao had to do something, he couldn't take credit for it, but he still had to do it.
Even if you don't get any credit, it's still good if it helps some people around you.
That's why we have those cans of milk powder on the Xu family's table.
Milk powder does not come from the Lou family. Lou Xiao'e is very good at it. His son's rice bowl is sufficient and enough for him to eat.
Even Xu Damao can share some.
This milk powder was brought by the leaders of the factory, such as Section Chief Hu, Section Chief Xia of the Technical Department, and Deputy Director Luo.
Even Deputy Director Li and Director Yang specially sent people to the Publicity Department and gave him a few tickets that the children could use.
This is the first time since Xu Damao came to this world that he has obtained these things without relying on the relationship between the Lou family and his own efforts.
No matter who Xu Damao likes or dislikes in the factory, necessary social interactions are still needed.
That is to live and live better.
As for the neighbors in the courtyard, they are selective.
For the sake of his family's life and safety outside, Xu Damao can pretend to be a grandson.
What are those things in the yard for?
When Xu's mother came back, she hesitated for a long time and finally persuaded Xu Damao: "Da Mao, you are making me and your father worried. We live in the same courtyard, even if we don't like him, there is no need to quarrel."
Xu's mother was dissatisfied with Xu Damao's return of things just now, but Xu Damao insisted that Xu's mother could only let herself be the bad guy.
Xu Damao also smiled bitterly and said: "Mom, I don't want to either. Even if I don't like the other neighbors in the yard, it's okay to nod when we meet. Just these three families, two are extinct, and one is a widow with a child. That's desperate. People who have no bottom line in doing things will not be cut off by me. Your daughter-in-law will really not be able to play with them in the future. "
Xu's mother sighed after hearing this and opened the curtain to take a look at Lou Xiao'e and her child inside.
Now Lou Xiao'e is tilting her head in boredom and making faces at her son. It's just that for such a small child, only a week old, it's not clear whether he can see it. Even if he could see it, he probably wouldn't understand what the hell he was doing.
Regarding the ability of children to see things within a few days after birth, Xu Damao also watched some short videos in his previous life. Some say that it takes a week, others say that the full moon can be seen, and some say that a baby can see light right from birth. It is also said that a baby after birth can only see within 20 centimeters. This distance is also the distance at which a baby can see its mother during breastfeeding. Distance between faces.
Xu Damao tried it once and found it quite terrifying.
Because from that direction, what Xu Damao saw were layers of double chins.
Xu's mother whispered: "Xiao'e, if you wait a while he will wake him up. You can coax him yourself. Take advantage of this moment to go to bed and rest for a while."
The relationship between people is much more gradual, like Lou Xiao'e and Xu's mother. At first, Xu's mother treated Lou Xiao'e as a noble person. After all, Lou Xiao'e's marriage to the Xu family in this year was regarded as a second marriage.
Later, as time went by, although the respect from the subordinates was not as high as it was at the beginning.
But for the sake of my son, I still take care of everything, but I still nag occasionally.
After Lou Xiao'e became pregnant, it was naturally different. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were as good as mother and daughter.
Until now, Xu's mother's attitude towards Lou Xiao'e was as natural as towards Xu Damao.
There is love from parents, and there is also a lot of nagging from parents.
And Lou Xiao'e didn't feel any discomfort. I saw Lou Xiao'e sticking out her tongue at Xu's mother and saying charmingly: "Mom, the baby is sleeping so soundly that he won't wake up."
Such conversations have happened every day since Lou Xiaoe recovered.
After waking up the child, Lou Xiao'e was still in a hurry and didn't know what to do.
I learned it later.
Well, it’s not that I learned how to coax a child, but that I learned how to call mom.
Whether it's Lou Tan or Xu's mother, there is always someone who will be by her side. As soon as I shouted, one of the two mothers would come over and skillfully check the child's diaper to see if it was pooped or peed. If not, this is when Lou Xiaoe goes to work.
Lou Xiao'e, the newborn wet nurse, has finally gone from being unaccustomed to, not adaptable to, and disgusted with feces and urine to now taking it for granted.
Sometimes, Lou Xiao'e is eating. If the child starts crying, Lou Xiao'e will put down her rice bowl and watch the two mothers take care of the child carefully. Sometimes I will also look at the color of the child's poop and whether it is watery or dry.
When the child's diaper is changed, hold the child in your arms. The child eats the child's milk, and she drinks her soup. I don't mind the smell of the air at all.
Xu Damao still admires his wife for this.
Although Xu Damao sometimes washes diapers, after washing, he always feels nauseous and washes his hands several times with soap. He couldn't be like Lou Xiao'e, who had just finished watching his child poop, and then could eat by himself without caring.
These days, even a wealthy lady like Lou Xiao'e. After giving birth to a child, it is impossible to escape the life of confinement.
Luckily it's cold now, so the smell in the house isn't that strong.
Lou Xiao'e looked around boredly, and then said as if she had remembered something: "Brother Damao, didn't I hear that children have sex?"
Xu Damao really admired his wife's brain circuit. She had been discharged from the hospital for nearly ten days, and now she thought of having sex?