Chapter 221
Against the backdrop of such times.
The Great Qin Empire basically did not have a situation where it was difficult to get married.
This is equivalent to a step that everyone must take when they grow up to a certain age.
It's pretty much the same concept as men's service.
Of course.
The Qin Dynasty 2,000 years ago.
After all, there are the limits of the times.
Ying Zheng really can't understand why it is difficult to get married.
With such doubts.
The First Emperor and the officials of Great Qin looked at the video on the canopy.
......
On the canopy.
The video starts playing.
[According to relevant statistics, since 2013, our marriage rate has been declining year by year. 】
[In 2013, out of 1,000 people, about 10 couples got married, that is, 20 people. 】
[And in 2018, out of 1,000 people, only 7 couples are married, that is, 14 people. 】
[At present, in the first three quarters of 2019, the number of registered marriages was 713.08 couples, a year-on-year decrease of 6.78%. 】
[The number of divorces was 3,104,100, an increase of 7.07% year-on-year. 】
[It can be seen that it is difficult for young people to get married, their willingness to marry is low, and the divorce rate continues to rise, which has become a common phenomenon in the current society. 】
Daming.
During the Hongwu period.
"Huh!?"
Zhu Yuanzhang opened his mouth wide, indicating that he was completely incomprehensible.
"What's going on?"
"We remember that the lives of future generations are much better than ours. "
"You don't have to worry about food and clothing, you don't have to worry about anything, why is it so difficult to get married?"
"And the divorced ones are almost half as married as they are?"
"How can this be?"
Zhu Yuanzhang couldn't figure it out even if he wanted to break his head.
I want to be at the beginning.
When he was a big soldier.
has solved the major life events of marriage, found a good daughter-in-law, Queen Ma, and gave birth to a good son Zhu Biao.
"yes. "
Zhu Biao also frowned, his face full of doubts.
"None of us in Daming have had such a situation. "
"Whose children don't marry when they grow up?"
"It's like a process that has to go through a process, starting a family, and it's a must for everyone. "
"Our people in the Ming Dynasty are much more difficult to live than in later generations, and they are still willing to get married and have children. "
"What the hell happened to the descendants?"
"Could it be that there has been some major change in thinking?"
Zhu Biao was puzzled.
According to the quality of life, the era in which they lived could not catch up with a fraction of that of later generations.
In terms of cultural literacy, the people of later generations are basically college students per capita, and 9 out of 10 ordinary people in the Ming Dynasty are illiterate.
Not at all.
But it is such a superior condition, and the prosperous era, has given birth to a group of young people who do not get married.
I don't understand, I don't understand.
I really don't understand!
......
[So, what is the reason why it is so difficult for young people today to get married?]
[First of all, we presuppose an ideal state in which everyone is in a stable relationship. 】
Let's first calculate the economic cost of getting married. 】
[Taking bride price as an example, bride price is one of our traditional marriage customs, although our marriage law expressly prohibits the use of marriage to solicit property, but the bride price custom is still prevalent. 】
According to research surveys, 93% of young people in small towns believe that the wedding bride price is essential. 】
[The average bride price in the southern coastal areas is about 70,000 yuan, while the average bride price in some places in the north is as high as 140,000 yuan. 】
Then.
An interview appears in the video.
in the picture.
Two young men in their 20s from the countryside sat on the kang and talked about everything.
"It was only more than 40,000 when I was a few years old, and last year I got married at the highest of 100,000. "
"By the beginning of this year, the highest had reached more than 14. "
"Basically, it went up by 4 in a year. "
"If it rises like this, rural people can earn 20,000 yuan a year except for eating, drinking, and Lazar. "
"Getting married, almost all the efforts of nearly 10 years. "
"It's too costly. "
"What's worse is that the bride price is getting higher and higher year by year, and the money I earn now is not enough to raise the price. "
[This is only the cost of marriage in rural areas, and the cost of bride price and marriage in some cities has been as high as hundreds of thousands, millions, or even tens of millions!]
"Shhh
Seeing this, Zhu Yuanzhang couldn't help but gasp.
"My boy!"
"It costs so much money to marry a daughter-in-law in the future?"
"This is much more ruthless than our Daming people marrying daughters-in-law!"
Zhu Yuanzhang sighed again and again.
Back in the day.
When he married Queen Ma.
Basically, it can be described in 4 words.
That's one poor and two white.
Nothing.
But Queen Ma didn't dislike anything, and resolutely married him.
At that time, Zhu Yuanzhang was still very happy.
Bai picked up a daughter-in-law.
Now look at the question of marriage in later generations.
He was even more secretly relieved.
"Fortunately, we didn't meet a woman who asked for a high-priced bride price at that time, otherwise, wouldn't we still be a single?"
Hear him talking to himself.
Zhu Biao and Zhu Di couldn't help laughing on the side.
Jokes are jokes.
Zhu Biao looked at the sky and said thoughtfully: "I kind of understand why it is so difficult for young people in later generations to get married. "
"With such a high bride price, 9 out of 10 ordinary people can't afford it, how can they afford to get married?"
Zhu Di nodded in agreement.
"yes. "
"To put it bluntly, it's still a matter of money. (If you read a violent novel, go to Feilu Novel Network!)
"Because I was poor, I couldn't afford to get married. "
"But most of the people in this world are poor. "
His words can be regarded as a breakthrough.
Oh, yes.
Most of the people in this world are poor.
Wang Sun Gongzi will always be the most scarce existence.
But most of the world's wealth is in their hands.
The remaining three melons and two dates.
It's not enough for the poor daughters-in-law at all.
......
[Even if the bride price, dowry, car purchase, and house purchase expenses are not mentioned, what if you just look at the budget for the wedding?]
[Data shows that 32.2% of newlyweds have a wedding budget between 5~100,000 yuan.] 】
[The average wedding budget of the overall marriage preparation crowd is 96,000, so how much money can young people make?]
[Taking Beijing fresh graduates as an example, the average starting salary is 5,610 yuan, and according to the data provided by the network, the salary of college students after three years of graduation and work has increased by 82% on average compared with the starting salary, that is, 10.121 yuan. 】
[In other words, without the help of their parents, most students will not eat or drink 18 months after graduation in order to save money for their wedding. 】
[Don't forget, this is just the wedding money, not to mention the bride price.] 】
[A comparison of the two data shows that in terms of expenses, the marriage list is already as difficult as climbing to the sky for young people who do not have much savings. 】
Datang.
Zhenguan years.
"Actually...... How hard it is?"
Li Shimin looked stupid.
He was still surprised just now that the conditions in the later generations were so superior, why it was difficult for young people to get married.
Right now.
He put himself in the shoes of the young people of the next generation.
I feel a little out of breath.
If Li Shimin was allowed to live in the afterlife, without eating or drinking, he would never have been able to spend two years of his time and youth without eating or drinking, just to marry a woman.
Why?
Lao Tzu's two years of youth and hard work.
Half of Datang can be defeated!
What woman is so expensive?
Even Li Shimin thinks so.
Not to mention the young people of later generations.
......
Daqin.
"I really didn't expect that the burden on young people in later generations would be so great. "
"Even if you get married, you already have to bear so much pressure. "
"It seems that my Daqin is pretty good. "
Ying Zheng also shook his head again and again.
At least 147.
The common people of Daqin don't need to be so troublesome to get married.
It may lead a sheep or pull a piece of cloth as a bride price.
As for weddings, it's even simpler.
It is enough for everyone to eat and drink together at the host's house.
It doesn't have to be much trouble.
And at the moment.
Liu Bang of Pei County is sitting in the first seat of Taigong Lü and has just finalized his marriage to his daughter Lü Pheasant.
After seeing the video of popular science on the canopy.
The young Liu Bang couldn't help but secretly rejoice.
"Fortunately, I was not born in the afterlife, otherwise I wouldn't have been able to marry a daughter-in-law?"
"How good it is now, marrying the daughter of Mrs. Lu's family, it is better to spend even a penny, and even the wedding is arranged by others. "
Liu Bang was secretly happy in his heart.
He felt that if he was in this situation, if he was placed in the next generation, wouldn't he be a poor boy with nothing, married to the daughter of a rich man?
And the rich don't want anything, they just want to stuff their daughters over and be their daughters-in-law.
Do you think it's?
......
[Secondly, getting married means facing many family problems. 】
[According to the judicial big data produced, the main reason for divorce is the discord between husband and wife, followed by domestic violence. 】
[If you look specifically at what is the discord between husband and wife, the data released in a certain place in Jiangnan gives a reference. 】
[In 2018, the reason for the divorce ranked No. 1 in Jiangnan was trivial matters. 】
[No. 2 is separation.] 】
[The third place is a weak emotional foundation. 】
[Gambling, cheating, personality differences, lack of communication, family finance, etc., these conflicts that may not be known before marriage and emerge after marriage can make the relationship of husband and wife discordant, and eventually divorce. 】
In addition, marriage also represents the birth of children in a sense, as well as the union of the husband and wife into two families. 】
[The resulting family scuffle, or the trivial matter of sesame, can become the fuse of divorce. 】。