Ex-wife’s Rise to the Top

Chapter 22

Furthermore, because they are too familiar, no one is embarrassed to raise the issue of living expenses. If you don’t mention it, one party will suffer a long-term loss and it will have to break out for a while.

There are also two core issues of housework and cooking.

Uneven distribution creates resentment.

In addition, Xu Yizhang has two problems, one is cleanliness and the other is light sleep.

Her light sleep state is that as long as someone opens the door when she falls asleep, she will wake up and live with a nerve-sensitive person like her. In fact, it is even more painful for her roommate.

She didn’t want to suffer from being disturbed by light sleep, and she didn’t want to stay up late at night and sing to disturb others, so she decided to live by herself, almost living near Qin Zhen. Usually, it’s ok to have someone eat and go shopping together. Being alone in a room is quiet, sad, sad, painful, and having a place to stay for a while is ideal enough.

Qin Zhen asked her: “What kind of house do you want to find.”

“It’s almost the same as yours, but should I have one room and one room? It needs a balcony to see the sunlight coming in.” Qin Zhen’s is a single room with sunlight but no balcony. Xu Yizhang wants a separate balcony even more. Sit on the balcony and look at the scenery and blow the air. Single rooms usually don’t have a balcony.

“So, let me ask the landlord for you.”

“Row.”

After hanging up the phone, Chu Huixin came to see her again, “Girlfriend, do you have sweet soup?”

In fact, Chu Huixin is really a good mother, but Chinese parents and children often have a problem, that is, there is no sense of boundary.

She always came in Xu Yizhang’s room as soon as she wanted to, never knocked on the door, and never did not care about the time. Sometimes Chu Huixin would come in when she was looking for a quilt in the middle of the night. She didn’t think there was anything before she got married, but after getting married. She feels very unfree. It may be that she has matured and hopes to have more privacy and space in her life.

She turned her head and said, “Drink.”

Chu Huixin scooped her a bowl of sweet soup, and the two sat and chatted.

Xu Yizhang asked her: “Mother, they went back?”

“gone back.”

“Why do they come every day?”

“It’s not because of your cousin.” Chu Huixin took a sip of the sweet soup and asked her, “Did you tell Han Shen something?”

“what?”

“Your great aunt said that in the afternoon Han Shen asked your cousin out alone. The two did not know what they were talking about. When they came home later, your cousin said that he wanted to give the child to your cousin. Where is your elder mother willing? Come over and complain to our two elders…”

Xu Yizhang drank the sweet soup.

I thought Han Shen didn’t read her WeChat, but unexpectedly, he even asked his cousin to go out for a talk.

It’s just that every family has a hard time passing the elders.

She looked at the glutinous rice **** in the bowl and said, “Mom, don’t you think it is more suitable for children to follow the cousin?”

Chu Huixin frowned, “Where’s the word? Why do you think that? Did your cousin talk to you in private?”

“No.” She shook her head, “I just thought, it’s best for a child to follow his mother.”

“You don’t understand.” Chu Huixin sighed and said, “A woman who divorces and takes a child is as easy as you think? You think, if the child is with the father, then he at least has grandparents, even if the father remarries in the future. Yes, grandparents can continue to take care of them, and father’s family has property, no matter how bad they are, they can get some points in the future. But if you follow your mother, usually if there are brothers in your mother’s family, then the basic property has nothing to do with her, and divorce means nothing. It’s all gone, no money, no power, and living with a child and working. Is it so easy? Even if you finally remarry, people don’t want to take a boy with a woman, so if you remarry, you don’t want children, grandpa. Grandma doesn’t take over. What do you say to this child? This woman is not having a good time.”

Chu Huixin was talking about the thinking of the older generation. That generation basically thought so. Xu Yizhang didn’t agree with him and retorted: “Didn’t the cousin say that she will not remarry?”

“Child, you think it’s too simple.” Chu Huixin said: “She is hurt now, so she said that. She will meet with each other in the future. Isn’t she still married? And if she doesn’t get married, her family will be able to Agree? She is not saying that she is successful in her career and she is not a kind of strong woman. Does she have to live on her parents for a lifetime? But her parents also have an old day, and it is impossible to take care of her forever. Besides, your cousin’s family pays There are two younger brothers who are still unmarried now. Will they be married? Both younger brothers have married wives and live in the house. Can those daughter-in-laws not dislike her? Can they not want her to go? Then she will take her What to do with a child?”

Xu Yizhang didn’t speak.

Chu Huixin went on to say: “If she doesn’t want children, she is actually better off, so she will go back to her home to recuperate, and go to work and save some money when her health is better. With a child, life is unimaginable, and even more so. He grows up in vain, he needs us to spend a lot of effort to cultivate, you choose to take care of children, you will not be able to work, you will not be able to take care of the children after you work, put the children in the grandparents’ house, is it really better than the grandparents’ house? ?? And grandparents have been watching the children grow up, but at the grandparents’ house, the children may adapt.”

“I think these are all your thoughts.” Xu Yizhang couldn’t help but said, “Now the ages are equal, and grandpas and grandma are not so unfeeling, right? And the children want to follow their mothers even more.”

“I didn’t stop her from watching.” Chu Huixin said, “And your cousin meant that the child followed her and asked your cousin to pay 3,000 yuan a month for support. Your cousin meant that the child would give In their family, they don’t want the mother to pay for the support. In contrast, it is cost-effective for the child to come here. Otherwise, the child will follow the family name and pay for the support. The grandparents will not be able to see it when they want to see it. This is so uncomfortable.”

Therefore, in fact, adults still consider their own interests, and have never thought about who the children would like to follow more.

Xu Yizhang knew that she couldn’t make sense of her parents. The older generations lived in that environment and their thoughts had been solidified, and she couldn’t give them their thoughts anyway.

Although Chu Huixin has some truth in what she said, the times are different. The woman’s parents may not really be like the “water thrown out by the married daughter” of most people in the previous generation. This is just her own inference. That’s it.

She decided to ask Han Shen.

Turning on the phone, I was about to send a WeChat message to Han Shen, when I received a message from him.

Han Shen: [Did your uncles and aunts scold you? 】

Xu Yizhang lay on the bed and replied: [Why scold me? 】

Han Shen: [About your cousin. 】

Xu Yizhang: [What did you say to my cousin this afternoon? Why did he agree with the child to give my cousin? 】

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