Chapter 328 China in the explosive classics (page 12)
The woman was not shy and started communicating with him.
Seeing Xiaoni talking freely, the woman felt a little shy.
After getting to know her, I found out that the woman had just returned from studying abroad and was working in the capital.
Before they knew it, the two of them had been chatting for hours, all the way to Bali.
Knowing that the other party was also going to Bali to play, Xiaoni proposed to go together so that he could have company.
While walking together, the woman's behavior deeply attracted him.
When seeing an old man, a woman will take the initiative to carry things.
When she saw a friend who wanted to take photos, she became a makeup artist and photographer.
Such a passionate personality made Xiao Ni suddenly interested, as if he had found another self.
On the beach, the woman wore a beautiful dress and danced wantonly.
Xiao Ni looked at the dancing woman, his heart beat fast, and he unconsciously took out his mobile phone to take pictures of the beautiful moments.
He knew that he had fallen!
After returning to their respective posts, Xiao Ni chatted with each other from time to time.
At first, the two became good friends.
As the relationship gets better and better, the woman will also tell him about her parents asking her to go on a blind date.
He was very anxious when he heard that the girl was going on a blind date, but he had no reason to stop the girl from going on a blind date.
So, Xiao Ni thought of a way.
Tell the woman that he will accompany him to prevent her from being deceived.
In fact, women also have Xiao Ni in their hearts.
But he didn't say anything, and the woman was too embarrassed to take the initiative.
That's why I came up with a blind date to see if Xiao Ni loves me.
In this way, the well-known CCTV host accompanied his beloved woman on three blind dates and finally couldn't help it anymore.
After the third blind date, Xiaoni finally confessed to Pasha that he loved her very much.
After hearing this, Pasha smiled slightly and said: Don't you think of yourself as your sister?
Xiaoni didn't say anything, but hugged Pasha tightly.
Faced with this deep affection, Pasha's eyes were full of smiles.
She also responded to Xiao Ni, thinking: Finally proved that she was not wishful thinking!
After confirming their relationship, the two were not in a hurry to get married, but were busy with their careers first.
It wasn't until September 2013 that Xiao Ni took advantage of his girlfriend's trip and returned to his hometown to quietly organize the wedding ceremony. After his girlfriend came home, he immediately proposed.
Seeing such a big surprise, the wife shyly agreed to the proposal.
After listening to Xiao Ni's love story, both Zhang Lin and Sa Baining felt toothache.
It felt like I was forced to watch an ancient Korean drama, with thunder rolling everywhere.
After getting to know each other, they kept flirting with each other but did not confess to each other. When they went on a blind date, they became male best friends and did this three times.
Come on, is this something a CCTV host can do?
After confirming the relationship, they carefully prepared various romances and lived their lives like a Korean drama.
But they ignore that the life of a couple is boring and boring most of the time, and there is not so much excitement and perseverance until death.
It is obvious that Pasha is a career-oriented woman who yearns for high society.
Xiao Ni is also on the rise in his career and is gradually becoming a first-class host.
When they get along for a long time, when they get busier and busier, and their relationship gradually becomes ordinary, without the romantic scenes in Korean dramas, their attraction to each other begins to fade quickly.
In fact, a happy family means that one person is busy and the other person is not busy.
When everyone is busy, no one can take care of anyone else, and the relationship fades away.
If you are not busy, you will not have a good life.
Thinking of this, Zhang Lin became more and more grateful for the arrival of this child.
He didn't dare to maliciously speculate on his love, but he really didn't want to face this on his own, and eventually ended up with Xiao Ni.
"They say it's easy to fall in love but hard to get along. Marriage is like a book. Different people read books in different ways."
Kang Hui, who had been listening quietly, spoke up and persuaded in a low voice: "A good marriage requires not only mutual understanding between the two parties before marriage, but also correct management after marriage."
Nodding lightly, Zhang Lin and Saba Ning both agreed.
In fact, their married life is not romantic. More warmth comes from the daily care for each other.
Couples who know how to be grateful will tolerate each other in their lives together.
The husband understands his wife’s dedication and importance, and is grateful for her hard work for the family;
The wife understands her husband's efforts and is grateful to her husband for supporting the family.
Therefore, both sides know how to understand each other and work together to run this family well.
They don't have too many demands on each other, and they can work together and get through it when life is hard.
They can also enjoy the abundance of a happy life together in calm times.
This is how a couple should live.
Kang Hui kept saying: "Husband and wife, we often say that we have been sleeping together for thousands of years. Without a certain fate, we would not have met.
Now that we have met, we must cherish it, live our lives well, and fight together through thick and thin.
People who truly love each other should understand each other at all times, support each other, and live out their lives lovingly.
Therefore, couples who truly have feelings eventually become relatives.
The couple originally came from different families and grew up in different environments, so it was not easy for them to come together.
Therefore, we must cherish this hard-earned friendship.
In this way, we can achieve a state of spiritual harmony through constant running-in, and gradually become like family members in the long-term life together. "
Zhang Lin nodded again and agreed.
People can be grateful to their loved ones because they are connected by flesh and blood.
But for wives, because there is no blood relationship, many couples often turn against each other when they have disputes after marriage.
In particular, there are some who fight over property without caring about the past friendship between husband and wife, and insist on making life difficult for everyone.
This kind of situation usually occurs when couples don't have much affection, and they don't know how to be grateful to each other. As a result, they don't have any worries when they break up.
Sa Baining also echoed: "Husband and wife become relatives after a long time. Don't look for love and romance in marriage in the future, just live a down-to-earth life."
Looking up blankly, Xiao Ni murmured drunkenly: "Do I have a future?"
Rolling his eyes, Sa Baining smiled and scolded: "There must be, can you still be single for the rest of your life?"
"I……"
Xiao Ni was about to be pretentious when he was interrupted by Zhang Lin, who persuaded him: "Brother Xiao Ni, I also think that you should end this relationship as soon as possible and stop being timid.
You are afraid that your parents will not accept it, so you pretend to maintain the marriage and live your own lives.
Isn’t this looking for sin?
You have to know that your parents and your father-in-law and mother-in-law are getting older and their health will become worse and worse.
There will come a day when you can't hide it anymore. Why don't you let them suffer the same pain then?