Chapter 158 158, Mu Xiu Yu Lin
Things in the courtyard can be summed up in one sentence and should not be highlighted.
The income cannot be highlighted. If every household encounters difficulties, this household must be the first to be thought of.
The extra money cannot stand out. If it does, it will be like Xu Damao and Silly Zhu in the original drama. Either his blood is sucked, or he is targeted.
The status should not be highlighted. If someone wants to do something, they will come and ask you whether you can help or not.
Just like Yi Zhonghai in the original drama, in fact, if Yi Zhonghai really lives in a large courtyard, if he is not careful, he will also be sucked by others and kidnapped by his morality.
This is the fact. Yi Zhonghai has a high salary, a status in the steel rolling mill, and face on the street.
For such a person, it is natural for him to ask for help when a neighbor in the yard encounters something.
If he wants to help, it is normal for him to contribute money and effort, but not enough.
If he doesn't help any family, he will be pointed at the spine and scolded.
This is the normal state of living in groups.
If Yi Zhonghai is aloof and ignores his neighbors in the courtyard, then what he will have to face is everyone's cold violence.
This still requires the neighbors in the yard to be considerate.
It's hard to say whether Xu Damao's various things in the original drama were targeted.
Even if Xu Damao Shazhu does not live in this courtyard, in other courtyards, unless he pleases everyone, it is inevitable to be targeted. Just as Xu Damao brought local specialties and Shazhu brought lunch boxes to report to the factory and the street office, various things would always happen.
The ancients said that it means not to worry about poverty but to worry about inequality.
Unless you are like Rainwater, what you do reaches a level that is difficult for others to achieve.
Get in the newspaper!
Not just one serving.
Even if there are neighbors in the compound who want to cause trouble, they have to consider whether the street office and the steel rolling mill have any objections.
The key is that there is little rain, there is no job, and there are no interests that would conflict with others.
Of course, wherever there are people, there are rivers and lakes. Even so, there are still all kinds of jealousies spreading in the school.
Like Yuyu's original friends, the tiger-toothed girl Zhang Shuqin, the little beauty Yu Haitang, etc., they were all a little alienated from Yuyu during this period.
Up here, the rain is quite calm.
Because she had already experienced these things when she was a child.
When Yu Yu first went to school, there was no adult at home to help her take care of things. She was dressed sloppily and her hair was messy, so she was disliked by the children.
That is to say, when Yuyu was ten years younger, he slowly learned to take care of himself and made a few friends.
It was because she wasn't good enough then, but now it's just because she's too good.
Although he said he could accept it calmly, Yu Yu still felt a little uncomfortable in his heart.
There is nothing Xu Damao can do about this kind of thing. How can he care about these things now? To put it bluntly, even if the rainwater is stripped naked and thrown in front of him, the first thing Xu Damao sees is whether his son can have enough to eat.
If he really saw it, Xu Damao would probably curl his lips to show disdain.
This is Xu Damao's current mental state.
Not to mention stripping naked, even if you meet other women passing by on the road, you will always look there first.
This is the fighting power of a newborn dad.
Don't focus on anything else, just focus on your son's job.
Therefore, Xu Damao expressed his sympathy and expectations for the poor little Loli's current problems.
Xu Damao told Yu Yuyu that excellent people are like this.
Xu Damao asked: "Look at why those factory directors and leaders don't live in large courtyards?"
Yuyu said suspiciously: "Because they live in better conditions."
Xu Damao rubbed the diaper in his hand and said with a smile: "Our policy does not allow specialization, so why don't we pay much attention to it?"
Yu Yu was confused when asked by Xu Damao. Yes, our policy has always been to oppose specialization. Why do we ignore this?
Yuyu shook his head and said he didn't know.
Xu Damao continued: "Do you think it would be awkward for you if Director Yang of the steel rolling mill lived in this yard?"
Yuyu thought about how unnatural it was when she stayed with the school leaders, and when Director Wang accompanied the district leaders to shake hands with her. Yuyu nodded subconsciously.
Xu Damao didn't look at the rain at all, as if he knew the answer, and said quietly: "Your classmates are thinking like this now. Therefore, the necessary distance between people must still be maintained. Director Yang and the others If you live in this big courtyard, you will be very annoyed just to deal with people like that coming to report problems, not to mention awkward issues."
As Xu Damao spoke, he pursed his lips toward Liu Haizhongjia opposite him.
Yu Yu looked in the direction indicated by Xu Damao's mouth and saw Liu Haizhong. He also remembered Liu Haizhong's groveling behavior on the day Director Wang came, and couldn't help but laugh out loud.
Originally, the two people's voices were not loud. After all, the place they were in now was in front of Xu Damao's house. When you talk about gossip, you have to pay attention.
But Yu Hai's laughter still attracted Liu Haizhong.
Liu Haizhong held his hands behind his back and walked in front of the two of them with eight-character steps.
Liu Haizhong showed a smile that he thought was friendly to the people and said: "Yu Yu, if you don't read a book when you go home, why are you talking to Damao here? Do you have such a happy chat?"
Liu Haizhong's last sentence is the key point. What if Xu Damao is gossiping to Yu Yu about his Liu family?
Just as Xu Damao was about to answer, the crisp sound of rain rang in his ears. "Master, just now Brother Damao asked me to study with Brother Guangqi. My Brother Guangqi's grades back then were the best not only in the courtyard, but also in the entire alley."
As soon as these words came out, Liu Haizhong was definitely happy. What he was most proud of in his life was giving birth to Liu Guangqi. Although he was stabbed in the back by his son, it is undeniable that Liu Haizhong is still proud of his eldest son.
Even now when he beats his second and third son, the one sentence that never changes in Liu Hai is ~ "If you are like your big brother, how can I get angry?"
Liu Haizhong smiled and said: "Da Mao still has the vision, otherwise the factory leaders would have promoted you to be a cadre. As for my family Guangqi's study enthusiasm back then, there is no one in the whole alley who can match it. If it weren't for us as parents back then. His short-sightedness allowed Guangqi to go to high school, and now he might also be the leader of the steel rolling mill."
Naturally, Xu Damao wouldn't expose this kind of Yaya, and even complimented her a few times. It wasn't until Liu Haizhong was so happy that he turned around and left. Xu Damao and Yu Yu were relieved at the same time.
Xu Damao laughed softly and said: "Which one is true, the way Liu Haizhong looks now, or the way he looked when the street office expressed condolences to you?"
Yu Yu wanted to laugh again, but Xu Damao glared at him and suppressed it.
Rainwater said in a voice that only two people could hear: "The one I met just now was the one I was facing, and the one I was facing that day was the top. They are all the real him."
Xu Damao nodded and asked: "If you were asked to trade your job in the technical department of the steel rolling mill for the affection of your friends, would you trade it?"
Yuyu shook his head. They are all children from ordinary families. Where can there be so many spring flowers and autumn moons?
Finding a good job, getting more salary, finding a good family, and having two fat babies is what Yu Yu should think about.
As for friends, without Zhang San and Li Si, there will be no shortage.
Just as Yu Yu was chatting happily with Xu Damao, Lou Xiao'e's voice shouted in the room.
"Brother Damao, husband, I want to drink water." Lou Xiao'e's voice was laced with honey, probably because she heard the rain outside.
Xu Damao replied: "Come right away, don't move."
Xu Damao was about to stand up when Rain beside him said, "Brother Damao, I'll pour some water for Sister-in-law Xiao'e."
Xu Damao had a bit of an illusion and felt that the sound of rain had become gentler.
When Yu Yu arrived at the back room of the Xu family, he sniffed first. Although Xu’s mother cleans it every day, there is still a strange smell unavoidable.
Yuyu first shouted: "Sister Xiao'e."
Lou Xiao'e then pretended to say: "The rain is coming, where is your Damao brother?"
Yu Yu also pretended to be stupid and said, "My brother Damao is washing diapers. I'll come over to see you and the baby."
Hearing the child, Lou Xiao'e also forgot about Xu Damao. First, the child sleeping on the side was exposed and let Yu Yu take a look.
Then he said a little apologetically: "The baby is asleep now."
Yuyu asked: "Have you chosen a name for the baby?"
"Well, Victory, Xu Shengli." Lou Xiao'e replied proudly.
It's not that Lou Xiao'e is uneducated, but that this kind of name is the mainstream now.
Just like the "Zihan Zihan" in later generations is the same.
Most of the names now are either a matter of belief, such as victory, struggle, etc.
Either it is practical issues, such as construction, or supporting the army, loving the people, etc.
Or they are place names from various places. Most of them are given to their children by builders who travel a lot across rivers and Huaihe Rivers.
Most of them directly expressed their emotions and expectations for their children.
There is no market for names that are too elegant these days.
The name Xu Shengli was not chosen by Xu Damao at the beginning.
Before and after the child was born, Xu Damao looked through the dictionary several times and chose many names for boys and girls.
Things like Dehua, Yanzu, and Xueyou were all reported to Lou Xiaoe.
The same goes for Xu's father, who wishes he could give his child a name that sums up all the beauty in the world.
Xu Damao never expected that Lou Xiao'e would be the first to object, saying that she had no energy.
In the end, as a last resort, Xu Damao made a random joke about Xu Shengli.
Lou Xiao'e gave two thumbs up in approval.
This incident made Xu Damao very suspicious of Lou Xiao'e's taste.
But thinking about it again, it seemed that Lou Xiao'e liked him, so Xu Damao wiped away this suspicion.
However, according to Xu Damao's estimation, Lou Xiao'e will still change the child's name when she leaves with her child and goes to Hong Kong Island.
Each year and different places have their own unique spirit.
Some are masculine, while others are gentler.
But no matter what, it is the best expectation our parents have for us.